The Lord sure has given me plenty of opportunities to test my management abilities in the last month!
From troubles with our rental house that have required building crews in and out all day, house-hunting for a permanent place, and two of our children requiring two hospital stays in as many weeks, the last month has been one upheaval after another. (I’m sure you have all have times of extraordinary business or family upset, and so you’ll forgive me for my recent blog-battical!)
I wanted to share, over the next week or two, four of the specific lessons I’ve learned about FEMA; Or, how to apply your Bootcamp for Lousy Housekeepers Family Emergency Management Assessment to real life.
Prepare your plan. As covered in Chapter Eleven of Bootcamp for Lousy Housekeepers, and previously blogged here, preparing a good FEMA plan is something that must be done BEFORE you get into a desperate situation. When your life is simple, your days are running on schedule, and your family is happy and healthy, you may be tempted to skip over the FEMA chapter and move on to more fun and seemingly “necessary” tasks. However, only the Lord knows when your smooth days will turn bumpy. If you’ve waited until you’re on the way to the hospital with your sick child, it’s already too late to think calmly through your FEMA plan! It may seem tedious, but your husband, family and friends will appreciate the effort you’ve put into setting a plan in place for your home when you’re unavailable to run it yourself.
Prepare your home. Preparing yourself for a potential Yellow or Red Day around the corner also means that your home must be maintained to Green Day status every day! The point of FEMA is to ensure your home runs smoothly in your absence or illness so that you don’t have to worry about it and are able to focus on the trial at hand. If you have let your Daily Focus Block tasks fall by the wayside on your simple, stable days, there is no way your family will be able to function at a maintenance level on the Yellow or Red ones. What does that mean? If you’ve fallen off the Bootcamp wagon, hop back on today and get your house back up to whatever standard you have set for yourself. Remember, maintenance comes AFTER you’ve de-cluttered, organized and deep cleaned. In the midst of trials, you don’t want your family to struggle to put together simple meals or find clean laundry.
He took Summer Break too literally!
It was such a blessing to this momma’s heart to be able to take the chore cards out of my oldest son’s chore packet last weekend and divide them (by ability) between his two next-younger siblings. My eldest had already trained them in his tasks, and with minimal supervision from me, they seamlessly took over his work. His siblings are happy to complete his daily tasks until his broken leg is healed, and I’m not overwhelmed with extra chores in addition to caring for my hurting son.
Next post in this series: Be Specific.
Now, go re-read Chapter Eleven, work on your plan, and be prepared!
Get to work!